“thankyouforyourlongreplies,zhangshuo.ijustsentamessagetoyourwechat(maybealittleeasierthanhere).singlelifecanalsobehappyindeed.andyouarestillyoung,socanfindabetterone.butitsoundslikethereisalsoachancethatyourboyfriendwillrealiseheshouldneverloseyouandwillmakeuptoyou!!ihopeso.”
其实我踏踏实实,在老师眼里我是好学生。唯独在爱情方面我太优秀以至于臭男人不能配得上我哈哈……
外教:thankyouforyourlongreply,zhangshuo.maybeitiseasiertoanswerherethaninyour朋友圈.yes,irememberyoumentionedyourboyfriend,alsowhenwetalkedonwechatandyouhadadreamabouthim(somethingaboutbeingacathaha).iamgladtohearthatperhapsthereisstillachanceyourboyfriendwillfindyouandyoucanaccepthimagain.ionlyknowhimfromyourphotosinwhichithinkyoualwaysreallylookinlove(butialsoknowphotosusuallyshowthehappymoments).youaregreat,soiamsureyourboyfriendmustmissyoualotalready!!butidoagreethatlong-distancerelationshipscanbedifficult;misunderstandingsandirritationscanoccurmoreeasily.idon'tbelievethatyouarecrazy(justpassionateandmaybesometimesshowingemotionsinanextremewaythatyourboyfrienddoesnotknowhowtodealwithhaha).andmaybeyourboyfriendisreallybusy,eventhoughthat'sneveranexcusenottomakesometimeforyou.iamnoexpertonrelationshipshaha,butasanolderguymaybeihavelearnedafewthingsaboutcommunication.whenpeoplequarreltheyoftenblameeachotherfortheirbehaviour(“youalways...“,“younevertellme...“).butmaybethatbehaviourisnottherealproblem.itsometimeshelptomentionyourworriesandneedstoeachother(“whenyoudon'treplytomymessages,iworrythatyouforgotaboutmeanddon'tcareaboutme“,“ineedtohearthatiamthebestandonlygirlintheworldforyou,evenwheni'minacrazymood“.somore“i“than“you“).sometimesthatcanhelptolettheotherunderstandbetterandreassureyou(“idoloveyouandalwaysthinkaboutyou,butsometimesiamshytosaythatorjustsotired.iwilldomybesttosayitmoreoften).hahasorry,iwrotetoomuch,justhopemaybethereisa?chancethiscanstillhelpyou.nomatterwhat,youarereallyniceandacoolgirl,zhangshuo!soiamsureyoucanfindaboywholovesyouandtreatsyouwell.butitsoundslikethereisactuallystillachanceyouandyourboyfriendwillgetbacktogether.ihopeso.andmaybethisisasadorstressfultimeforyou.maybeyouhavebetterfriendsforthis,butifthereisanythingicandotohelp,justletmeknow!atleast,iwillalwaysbehappytolistentoyou.
我:haha,thankyouverymuch!asyousay,thelongdistancerelationshipisverydifficult!heisgood,metoo.maybenowifindhimhemustanswermyquestions.butthesedaysheisbusytruly.sometimesiamshy,ishouldsay“iloveyou,imissyou“,butisay“whynotanswermymessages?“so…heiscold……
外教:haha,ifheisreallycold,thenheisnotagoodboyforyouandyoudeserveabetterone.butmaybeinhisheartheisnotcoldandheisjustahumanbeing,whomakesmistakesandsometimesexpresseshisemotionsinaclumsyway[偷笑]justlikeallofus.nobodycantellyouwhattodo,ijusthopeyoucanbehappy(withorwithouthim)andbetreatedwell[愉快]andihopethatfornowyoucanindeedenjoythebeautifulsummersunshine[跳跳]
我:manisverycareabouthisselfesteem[捂脸],mycrazywordshurthisheart.whenwearehappy,wecansaysweetwordstoeachother,suchas“youarecute,iloveyou“…whenthequarrelhappens,wedon'twanttosayanythingtoeachother…thisiswrongaction!haha,somepeoplelikesay:“youcouldn'tbreakup,youwillsaytoeachothernomorethan3days…“[好的]althoughicriedyesterdayeveningbecausehiscold,todayiamstillcrazy,butiamveryhappybecausetherearesomepeoplewhocaresmysadness…[强][旺柴]nothingisdifficult,ihopehecanfindmebravelyorifindhimafterseveraldays[旺柴]haha,iagree…asyouknow,therearemanymanyboys![阴险][阴险][阴险]
外教:nocommunicationatallduringquarrelsismaybenotgreatindeed.especiallyifyoucan'ttalkaboutitafterthequarreleither.ithinkit'snormaltobesadaboutthiskindofsituation.buti'malsosuretheremustbemanypeoplewhocareaboutyou!andyes,therearemanymanyboys,somaybetheresultwillbethatyoufindabetterone.
我:inchina,[捂脸][捂脸]therearemanygoodboys…ifhemiss(错过)me,hewon'tfindanothergirlwholoveshimbeyondmytruelove!maybeheisstillbusy,thismonthhisteachergiveshimtoomuchtasks.haha![旺柴]ifhemiss(想念)me,hewillfindmenomorethan7days…todayitisthesecondday.actuallyheisninemonthsyoungerthanme……hewasborninjanuary,iwasborninmarch,1997.wearestubborn……
外教:yes,iunderstand.it'slikeanultimatum,hemustshowhemissesyouwithinthisperiodoftime.iexpecthewillmissyoualotandletyouknowwithinthe7days……butifnot,atleastthatalsomakesthingsclearer.
我:haha,verywonderful[旺柴].wearestubbornandwaiteachother.[破涕为笑]金牛座taurusreallyunderstandslove,but摩羯座iscolderthanme.loveislikeawar,iamhappyandiwillbeawinner![旺柴]ithinkhewillfindmeonmorethanoneweek.otherwish,iwillfindanotherboywholovesme!ithinkthiswillhurthisheartforever!heisclever,heisalsowaitingformymessages.haha[旺柴],iwillgivehimthelastchance[强][强][强].iamemotional,butican'tbearhiscoldeverytime.self-esteemisveryimportant,but……whataboutme?[破涕为笑]
外教:ah,that'sinteresting!actuallyiamalsoataurus(bornapril)whileithinkiamusuallyfriendlyandeasygoing,iamcertainlyalsostubborn.andithinkcapricorn(yourboyfriend'szodiacsign)arealsostubbornindeed.soit'sunderstandableyouwillclashsometimes.
我:[捂脸]asamatteroffact,singledogisfree![旺柴][旺柴][旺柴]hesaidhewillbeasingledogifibreakupwithhimforever,andwon'tfindanothergirl.[破涕为笑]wow!great!iwasbornin4,21st[捂脸]ithinktaurusisverycuteandeasy-going[强]!hewasborninjanuary,20th[捂脸].(1.20——水瓶座加摩羯座heiscold!)
外教:therearealsoadvantagestobeingasingledog.andicouldunderstandifyourboyfriendfeelsit'simpossibletofindagirlfriendthatisbetterthanyou.
我:accordingtochinesefortunetelling(算命,周易/易经yijing),heisfireandiamwater.[旺柴]
外教:ourbirthdaysareveryclose!yes,ialsothinkweareusuallyfriendlyandeasy-going(itseemstaurusisnotoftenangry,butifweareangryweareveryangry!maybethat'salittletrueforme)haha,actuallymysister'sbirthdayisexactlythesameasyourboyfriend's,alsojanuary20th.butmysisteralwayssaysshedoesn'tlikecapricornandsheisn'treallyacapricorn,butactuallyalreadyanaquarius.becausethatstartsthenextday)hm,fireandwatersoundslikeadifficultcombination……
我:inchina,whensomepeoplemarry,theywillfindonemaster(算命大师)topredict(预测)[旺柴]soundswonderful[破涕为笑]ilikemysteriousthings,includingwestern星座andoldpredictionofchinese[捂脸]haha,accordingtothis,ourlovestoryisfilledwithtragedyandcomedy(悲喜交加,相爱相杀)
外教:it'sinteresting!sodidyoufindamasterforthesepredictionsalready?isawyouwroteearlierthatafortune-tellerpredictedproblemsandevendivorce.butthenagain,maybesometimewecandefeatfateandalsohavesomeinfluenceonthisourselves[呲牙]
我:ourstorylikesshakespeareantragedy[流泪][流泪],soifounddifferentmasterstotellourfate,wearedifficultindeed,butifweunderstandeachother,wecanwin!
外教:yes,that'smorehopeful!ialsoliketobelievethatwithunderstandingandthroughourownbehaviour,wehavesomeinfluenceontheoutcomeaswell.
我:yes[强],nothingisdifficultifyoudon'tgiveupeasily[捂脸]
外教:andmaybeevenverysuitablecoupleswillsometimesquarrelandgothroughadifficultperiod!
我:[强][强][强]iagree.oh,mygod![破涕为笑]it'ssunnytoday!thesummerholidayiscoming!
外教:yes.sothequestionnowwillbetogiveupornottogiveup.iagreeit'simportantnottogiveuptooeasily.butiftheproblemsaretoodeepandyoureallythinkheiscold,perhapsgivingupcanalsoleadtonewandbetteropportunities.butmaybewaitifhecontactsyoufirst!yes,it'sreallysummernow.
我:thankyouforyourwords,youmustbeverybusytoday,sorry[捂脸]
外教:willyoualsobefreeandhavesometimetoenjoythesummerholiday?ithinkyoushouldrelaxwellafterallthisrelationshipstress[拥抱]
我:yes!butishouldstudy[捂脸],thereisatestnextmonth
外教:iamnotbusynow,becausemyclassesforthissemesterhavefinishedalready.andinanycase,iamhappytotalkwithyou,sowillalwaysdomybesttomaketimeforthat.ifeeltouchedthatyousharedyourstorywithmeandhopeyouwillbehappy!!wow,that'simportanttoo[呲牙]whatkindoftest?postgraduateentranceexam?orareyoualreadyastudentnowandthetestispartofyourstudies?ishouldn'tdisturbyouthen,becausemaybeyouneedtostudyforthetest!
我:aboutbecomingateacher[捂脸][捂脸]……ithinkbecominganenglishteacherisnoteasy.aftergraduation,ijionedinteachingteststwice[捂脸],butifailed…teacherrecruitmentexamination(教师招聘考试)[捂脸]
外教:wow,it'sgreatthatyouwanttopasstheenglishteacher'stest!actually,ithinkyouwouldbeagoodteacherandyourpersonalityissuitableforit[鼓掌]butialsoknowthetestsareoftenaboutalotoftheoryandmaybenotsoeasytopass加油[呲牙]
我:inourtown,it'sverydifficult.ihavetoomanycompetitor竞争者[破涕为笑]
外教:hahayes,buti'msureyouarealsoverygood,soyoucanbeatyourcompetitors[加油][呲牙]
我:loveisonlyonepartinmylife,soishouldworkhard[流泪]
外教:yes,iunderstand.itwouldbegreatifyoucanpassthetest!!andthenhappylovelifecanfollowaswell[调皮]
我:thanks![强]youknow,westudentsalllikeyou!maybeit'sthelasttimeijoininthecompetition![破涕为笑]ifistillfailintheexam,maybegivingupisagoodchoice!earningmoneyismuchbetter!taurushasthemorechancestomakemoneythanothers!haha,iamveryhappy!thankyou!it'stimetohavelunch.haveyoueverhadlunch?
外教:ithinkit'salwaysgoodtohaveaplana(passtheexam),butalsoaplanbifthefirstplanfails.haha,taurusaregood,butalsoyouasanindividualpersonaregoodandresilient!maybenoteverythingcanbeasuccess,butiknowyouwillsucceedintheend!!
我:yes![强][强][强]weshouldbelieveinourselves!haha,weeatnoodles[捂脸].whataboutyou?[得意]
外教:thankyou,ialwaysrememberandlikeallofyouaswell.it'sspecialtomeetsomanygreatpeopleinoneyearofclasses.iwillalwayscareaboutallofyou.andi'mveryhappytotalkwithyoutoday,evenifthereasonisalittlesad.yes,ishouldeatlunchtoo.iusuallyeatbreadforlunch.butyoushouldenjoyyournoodles[呲牙]
我:haha,ialwaysseeyouclimbmountainsindifferentcitiesandseesomestudents,friends…yourlifeiscolorful![强]haha,thisisdifferentfromchina[捂脸]
外教:haha,partofmylifeisalsojustwork[偷笑]thephotosshowthehappymoments.it'shardernowtovisitmanystudentsatonce,becauseyouallliveindifferentplacesandhaveyourownbusylives.butihopeonedayiwillhaveanopportunitytomeetyouagain[转圈]haha,maybethenyouandyourboyfriendwillhavemadeupandarehappilymarried[呲牙]yes,differenthabitsindifferentcultures!
我:ok,thanksforyoursuggestionsthisafternoon!haha,haveagoodtimeinchina!luoyang洛阳isinteresting![得意]